refactor: large codebase cleanup - consolidate schemas, migrate to Drizzle ORM, extract frontend components, modernize Docker builds

- Consolidate all DB schema definitions into packages/shared as single source of truth
- Migrate backend from raw SQL to Drizzle ORM across all modules
- Extract frontend inline UI into separate component files
- Refactor discord-gateway circuitBreaker into conversationState + moderationState
- Convert messageStore to Proxy singleton pattern
- Add validateBody/validateQuery middleware + Zod schemas for API endpoints
- Modernize Docker builds with multi-stage + pnpm deploy
- Migrate CI/CD from deployment to image-based pipeline
- Remove 60+ unused/dead files (~15K lines)
- Update color scheme from sky-blue to teal-cyan
- Move DB connection management to @bete/shared/database

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

services/frontend/src/components/ui/checkbox.tsx

@@ -1,27 +0,0 @@
-"use client";
-
-import { Checkbox as CheckboxPrimitive } from "@base-ui/react/checkbox";
-import { CheckIcon } from "lucide-react";
-import { cn } from "@/lib/utils";
-
-function Checkbox({ className, ...props }: CheckboxPrimitive.Root.Props) {
-  return (
-    <CheckboxPrimitive.Root
-      data-slot="checkbox"
-      className={cn(
-        "peer relative flex size-4 shrink-0 items-center justify-center rounded-[4px] border border-input transition-colors outline-none group-has-disabled/field:opacity-50 after:absolute after:-inset-x-3 after:-inset-y-2 focus-visible:border-ring focus-visible:ring-3 focus-visible:ring-ring/50 disabled:cursor-not-allowed disabled:opacity-50 aria-invalid:border-destructive aria-invalid:ring-3 aria-invalid:ring-destructive/20 aria-invalid:aria-checked:border-primary dark:bg-input/30 dark:aria-invalid:border-destructive/50 dark:aria-invalid:ring-destructive/40 data-checked:border-primary data-checked:bg-primary data-checked:text-primary-foreground dark:data-checked:bg-primary",
-        className,
-      )}
-      {...props}
-    >
-      <CheckboxPrimitive.Indicator
-        data-slot="checkbox-indicator"
-        className="grid place-content-center text-current transition-none [&>svg]:size-3.5"
-      >
-        <CheckIcon />
-      </CheckboxPrimitive.Indicator>
-    </CheckboxPrimitive.Root>
-  );
-}
-
-export { Checkbox };