message_updated broadcasts only {id, edited_content, edited_at} (+ reset
ai_* fields), but the frontend replaced the whole cached record, wiping
username/content/channel_id/created_at -> blank cards and the
'the channel_id of undefined' crash on /messages. Merge partials over the
existing record (list + detail), make list-patching channel-filter aware,
show edited content/badge, and fix the message_updated WS type.
Also broadcast type:'edited' + ai reset in message_updated so the live UI
matches the DB update.